My Name Is Molly, And Im An Alcoholic

Ive been hiding a secret in plain sight.

Im an alcoholic.

Some people already know. Some people partied with me and dont need to read the painstaking detail of every gutter I barfed in during my drinking career. They watched a lot of it happen.

But for those who didnt know, my name is Molly and Im an alcoholic. I probably have been for the last decade, though it progressed significantly in the last two years.

To those on the fringes of my orbit, it may have seemed like I had a perfect life. Im 31 years old. I live in the most beautiful city in America. All of my needs are met. I am college-educated and have had a great career. Jordan (my husband) is the best partner I could have ever asked for. I do a lot of really cool shit. I get to travel the world. Hell, I even have a pretty good credit score. And most important, I have a perma-smile plastered on my face.

But there was always one problem. I was a fucking mess.

Oh, also my brain felt like it was rotting out of my skull from depression, anxiety, and self-loathing. Many people in my life may be surprised to know that I was recently diagnosed with PTSD. Ive endured a lot of trauma, especially in my early life. Verbal, emotional and physical abuse. Rape (a few times). Bullying. Stalking. Brainwashing. Sexual Harassment. Infertility. Chronic Stress. Etc.

So instead of allowing myself to feel those emotions like a normal person, I anesthetized them nearly every single night. I couldnt stand to not feel numb. The only time I felt like I could breathe was when the fizz of a cool drink was swimming down my throat.

In early February 2016, I woke up sick and feeling like my soul had been scraped out with a butter knife. I woke up feeling this way most mornings. Why did I keep doing this to myself? I seemed to lack the off switch that normal humans possess once theyve had a few. I dont know why that morning was different, but it was. The whisper in the back of my head saying the jig is up escalated to a shout.

You dont give up the sauce because of a bad hangover or the shame of a few drunk texts. You give it up because you dont recognize yourself anymore. You give it up because youre terrifying yourself. You give it up because youve become a shell of the person you once were. I suppose I was sick of feeling terrified all the time.

I tried to quit on my own for three months or so because Im a stubborn prick who thinks she has superhuman strength. As you can imagine, that didnt turn out so well, so went to plan B and checked myself into rehab.

Ive been sober for almost 70 days. 66 to be exact.

I can never have another sip again. And you know what? Its fucking awesome. When I first started on this journey, I wondered how I would ever have fun again. I thought it was the end of my life. But as it turns out, life without booze is a blast. I even love myself for the first time ever. And I can breathe slowly and deeply, without any chemical assistance.

Ive been hemming and hawing about putting this out there for a while. Its scary. Its uncomfortable. But I figure if I spill my insides out onto the table, maybe someone will read it and feel a little less alone. In fact, in the last several days, more and more friends and acquaintances have come out of the woodwork to say,

Read more: http://thoughtcatalog.com/molly-beane/2016/08/my-name-is-molly-and-im-an-alcoholic/


Important
This site makes use of cookies which may contain tracking information about visitors. By continuing to browse this site you agree to our use of cookies.